Have you ever had things in your life that you feel like you need or want to change? Well, right now I have a lot of things I want and need to change. The problem....where and how to start!
I have so many thoughts in my head of all these things I am going to do and ways to do them but yet I don't know where to start or don't have the motivation to change anything. I kept thinking to myself that after I got over the morning sickness from this pregnancy and I feel better I would be able to make a change and start working on all of these things that I want to do. Well, for the most part I am feeling a lot better other than maybe a couple of bad days here and there but...I still can't seem to do anything different.
What do you do when you have this problem...
Some of these things are silly and no big deal but others will make a huge difference in the way my life with my husband, kids and even my own future will turn out.
I had a long talk with Brandon about something I was struggling with today. Something that I know I need to change. I need to just let go and stop trying to control everything within this situation in order for it to get any better. Sometimes I want to blame the other person involved but deep down I know that it could be a lot easier if I would just change and quit trying to do everything my way. This is really a silly situation and something that will not effect the rest of my life in any way shape or form and in talking to Brandon he helped me to realize that it's not going to matter to me in the long run so I just need to stop trying so hard to fix the problem. But I also need to change the way I am handling the situation in order to get through my days without so much stress! This is is a pretty easy fix and I have already started working on this one.
These others are not so easy... I know what I need to do, I just feel like I don't know how to do them.
So, I want your suggestions. What is the first step in making a change? What do you do in these situations?